Anxiety

Do you see a tiger in front of you? Then why are you nervous?

Anxiety management with george lagios life mentor

Stress affects us all and to a certain extent it is indeed a normal reaction to an intense stimulus or challenge. Have you ever felt breathless, your heart beating too fast, sweating, afraid you will faint or maybe even die? If so, then you are not alone. Millions of people suffer from some form of anxiety.

If we were facing a tiger in front of us then the fight or flight or freeze would automatically kick in. This is a primitive reaction and is related to the evolution of the human species. Our body is preparing itself for survival. However, if we are walking down the street and suddenly our body starts having all the expected defensive reactions with no real danger anywhere, then something else is obviously going on. Let's take generalized anxiety disorder as an example. This affects around 3-5% of the general population at some point in their lifetime. Generalised anxiety disorder is characterised by constant, excessive anxiety and uncontrollable worry in various areas accompanied by corresponding psychological and physical symptoms. (American Psychiatric Association, 2013). Generalized anxiety disorder nowadays is considered one of the most chronic, costly and harmful mental disorders that even comes with social, occupational and economic burden (Tyrer & Baldwin, 2006). In general, the most common physical finding in patients with anxiety disorders is increased muscle tension that may be accompanied by tremors, twitching, muscle aches, sweating, nausea or diarrhea and exaggerated reactions to sudden noises.

This is just one type of anxiety.There is also social anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, panic attacks, phobias, post-traumatic stress disorder and others. Wherever they come from they can create immense discomfort and make several aspects of our daily lives dysfunctional. Some people have a fear of speaking or eating in front of others in formal and informal settings, which could be individualised into a condition such as social phobia. Some people can't perform when it matters. Just the thought of being criticized or rejected makes them numb! It's really frustrating to have the skills or knowledge or even the ability to be effective and let anxiety stand in the way. Whatever the causes, many people find it difficult to work, socialise and be functional. The feeling of anxiety overwhelms, overwhelms them and they feel their lives are unbearable.

Personal experience

Personally, I have experienced stress for many years in my life. When I was 30 years old I went to the hospital suffering from acute stomach pain. After a gastroscopy I was diagnosed with acute gastritis. I thought a lot about what happened to me. What was the real reason? Sure, the reason was stress, but why? How did this happen? My medical condition reflected and mirrored my emotional state. At the time I was working very hard as a stockbroker and the only thing that made me feel good about myself was making money. That's how I perceived success. I thought money was the ticket to happiness. As it turned out, however, my own permanent state of anxiety was not the ticket to a good life, but instead was the ticket to my poor psychosomatic state. My physical problem was actually a result of my mental activity. What does that mean? My thoughts were creating excessive anxiety that eventually turned into gastritis. In essence, I had created my problem.

Over the years, I have had the opportunity to discuss this issue with other people in the financial world and have noticed that 99% of them have had similar experiences of severe stress-induced psychosomatic symptoms. They even went so far as to adopt unhealthy behaviours to cope with stress, such as alcohol abuse, drug abuse or even sexual addictions. Over the years they pondered whether they had chosen the right path, chasing the greatest return on an investment, being constantly stressed day and night with this thought, feeling increasingly anxious or fearful about the future, forgetting all other areas of their lives, such as that of husband, friend, son or daughter, traveller or volunteer. Even the pathological conditions were not enough for them to realize that they had to stop. They were in constant denial and continued to reinforce and strengthen the same vicious cycle. This is a sad story that for those who can put things in perspective the ending is not so sad! Psychotherapy online or in person, be it cognitive behavioral, psychoanalysis, systemic or any approach depending on the issue at hand, are proven through research to be catalytic to our peace of mind.

What can we do?

You don't have to learn to live with stress. There are several techniques to help you successfully cope with stressful situations. Challenges are part of our lives, but you can learn to anticipate them and be properly prepared. We won't let stress take over! I will guide you step by step so you can learn how to manage stress. Together we will build a grid of essential skills and identify healthy ways to manage stress. Most importantly, we will reconstruct dysfunctional or distorted thoughts. Restore your inner peace and tranquility, become calm again and take control of your life!

Dr. George Lagios

PhD, M.Sc. (CBT)

Dr. George Lagios holds a master's degree in psychology, specifically in cognitive behavioural therapy, and a PhD in sexology. He is a professor of Psychosexual Therapy and author of two best sellers Would you choose you as your parent? (2018) and Inside your mind (2020). He is also a clinical mental health counsellor, psychotherapist and speaker. He has been awarded the President’s Achievement Award  from the Hellenic American Union and continues his research work on the erotic desire.

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